My FMORT

I had been tagged by Umang for this FMORT post. n i wud like to apologize for the inordinate delay.....so now that my exams got over..n i had some free time..not tht i didnt have free time during exams...but somehow thought of getting the purely random thots after the exams...so here goes....

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random thots..hmm...interesting.....where should i get them from....

ok..lets give it a shot...i mean...randomness does lead to chaos..n all chaotic situations finally tune themselves to become less random over a period of time...

wow i can write crap up very easily...

should i watch lions for lambs or friends or sleep for sometime..

yaaawnn...damn

i want to go back home for sometime..

i miss being in delhi...aah the winters must ve started.....i miss the foggy mornings n evenings..

mess is closed tonite...will have to go to the city for diner..where should i go....aah let it be...shaam ko dekhenge...

i ll watch friends for a while...season 4 or 8...season 4..the apartment episode..yeah...that shud b fun...

y is the mangalore girl still at the back of my mind???even this must be a random thot...

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well anyone who wishes to take up this activity..can do us at their random will..lol

btw FMORT = Five minutes of Random Thoughts

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how to go about this.....

well i knw i ve to reply to umang's tag...n i ll very soon..apologize for the delay...

but i need to hear out how to tackle this situation...

so here it goes...

remember the post on the mangalore girl who got married...well she has called up twice in this week..latest being 10mins ago....n i seriously didnt ve a clue of wat to talk abt...i mean...all i could do was like talk abt "wasup"..."howz life"..."had diner"..."howz ur hubby"....10mins of talking and this is all i could talk...gawd...i dont knw...shes back home for sometime before the paper work gets done for her to go to US.....and then she asks me...will u come n meet me in US...i said no....she says..will u meet me in Delhi...i didnt reply..she said...all the time u asked n i said no..now i m asking n u r not saying anything...i said...u remember the scene from DDLJ...where Kajol asks Shahrukh for his address to invite him for her wedding...n he says "main nahi aaonga"...so i told her...i ll not meet u...(maybe i did the wrong thing..but somehow thats wat came to my mind..too filmy eh???)

2 days back when she called...she was like.."i m sure u must b shocked and surprised"..and i am like...no..i m not..the reality is out there....but then i cant believe u telling me that it all happened so fast and u werent aware of it...then she says like.."trust me...even i wasnt...me n my folks went to meet the guy on 31st oct...and as the talks between my family n his family had been on for a while...it was decided that the marriage be conducted in a few days...before my would be hubby leaves for US"...n i am like...4 days???in 4 days u said to an arranged marriage...

i wanted to say..u r stupid..idiot..4 days..damn it...but all i could say was "my best wishes are with both of u"....how could i say anything else....and then she was like.."the entire family is like...u guyz ve done things too fast...we are just praying things remain ok always"...n i am like yeah they are right...when u cud ve said no...u said yes...atleast u cud ve taken some more time...and then someone came..n she had to go....

now...i seriously dont know what to talk..so guyz..lemme knw ur take on it...

a wonderfull poem....

A friend of mine at mah b school...wrote this after reading a post on my blog...its an amazing piece tht she wrote..n i wudnt want to see it get lost amongst the comments section on that post...so here it is...as a separate post...thnx bonny :)

The day begins up from East
and ends up in west.
Our life begins with our birth
and ends up with our death.
This chain will go on on and on.
Everyone comes and goes,
But those who are gone never comes back.
Every moment is precious as a gem
So win it like a game
No doubt difficult is this job
But you can do it calling Oh Lord!!

The kind of FLIRT i am...

Well as suggested by umang...took this flirt test....and here is what i got........

CINNAMONY FLIRT

You stand true to the Cinnamon flavour of Bru Cappuccino. You're playful and witty. Life to you is all about challenges and having fun and you display that in your flirting too. Humour is your forte whether it be passing a witty comment or cracking a funny joke. You imbibe this in your flirting technique and impress the others with your intelligence and comic timing. You also have the ability to pre-empt what others want and fine-tune your flirting accordingly.

The obvious flirt

You're an upfront flirt who doesn't like to plan things simply because it takes too long. Why wait for the perfect moment when you can have the moment right here and now. Your flirtatious qualities are hard to miss, and subtlety is not what you are known for. Now this is all great, as you're not playing games, so you let everyone know what your intentions are. However, be careful you don't scare people off with your direct manner. It might help if you use a bit of strategy to get

hmm..well..it was interesting to know this.....a few testimonials on mah orkut profile do say something similar i gues.... ;) ;)

for those who wud like to ve a say on this..please leave ur comments..they will be replied back to appropriately...ha ha ha

more or less like the sun sign advice columns u ve in news papers...u read n probably forget them..lol

someone explain this to me

Hey...

got this on the lan on my hostel network...couldnt help but share it with the world...its truely amazing...



enjoy!!

inspired by umang's blog

this actually comes as an inspiration from "umang's blog"..the last couple of posts on her blog..made me write this out...

in the chill of the night...
i feel as if im going to crumble without a fight...
far away i see the dawn break away...
basking everyone in its way with all its might...
and i say to myself, fighters always fight...

dont know what to write...

wow...never thot that i ld be writing this post...but then...the human mind is a strange entity..so here i am...writing this out..its related to a girl...well just to give u some back ground info...

the sequence of events in brief..got to knw this gal doing her MBBS in mangalore while i was doing my engg in Pune, about ending of 3rd yr, say Jan 2004. Got talking to her...got to know her better..became very good frnds...faked something at home and went to meet her...had the most amazing 2 days of my life with her....fell for her...told her about the same....she was a hindu..me a sikh...she said her family wud never agree...i said..leave that to me...bcos i knew i cud make that happen(my family's pretty open to whomsoever i wud choose)..newaz..came back..with a hope that something might work out in the future...a week later she called to tell, that she was getting engaged....all of a sudden that was news...tho i knw she was lying...we went our own ways....

fast forward...about an yr and half later...a more stronger...maturer me...is working for HSBC...as a software engineer...slogging away day n night at work...n one fine night i get a call from her again...pleasant surprise..yes it was...did it feel good..yes it did...so she tells me that she lied to me during the engineering days so that i cud move away from the idea of "being with her"..as it was not possible...(lol...funny tactics some girls use eh)....newaz..things were different then...and things were different now...so we got talking again for sometime...she was in the last yr of her course then...

fast forward again...im doing my mba here in tamil nadu...after some period of no talking...i get a call from her again in feb this yr...shes single..im single..so we talk...and we talk..the talking gets better and takes me back to the good old memories for a while...

but then somewhere down the line...i feel so damn well prepared to take any shocks...its like u throw anything at me..im gonna defend it successfully...so with that kind of subconscious feeling inside me...we keep talking...somewhere the light of optimism still makes me believe that things might work..but if they dont then its ok..life wud move on..she got back home...her course finished...and we kept talking quite often till about a week ago...wen i had to go to chennai for a college event...

today, 7th nov 2007, she calls to tell me that she got married on 4th nov to some NRI...lol...the first thing in my mind..is she telling the truth or faking again??n the first thing i ask her is how'd this happen...n she says..it happened all of a sudden...within a couple of weeks n all..the usual blaah blah...n im thinkin here..shud i be laughing or not??finally it seemed she was telling the truth...so i wished her...spoke to her for a couple of minutes...n in between she says "i knw u must b shocked n al"..n i say "no i m not shocked...im much more stronger (emotionally)....so strong that i can take alot without getting affected"...this statement actually scared me a bit......

well i dont knw wat else to write..this just happened abt an hr ago.....newaz...as they say...life goes on...