well i knw i ve to reply to umang's tag...n i ll very soon..apologize for the delay...
but i need to hear out how to tackle this situation...
so here it goes...
remember the post on the mangalore girl who got married...well she has called up twice in this week..latest being 10mins ago....n i seriously didnt ve a clue of wat to talk abt...i mean...all i could do was like talk abt "wasup"..."howz life"..."had diner"..."howz ur hubby"....10mins of talking and this is all i could talk...gawd...i dont knw...shes back home for sometime before the paper work gets done for her to go to US.....and then she asks me...will u come n meet me in US...i said no....she says..will u meet me in Delhi...i didnt reply..she said...all the time u asked n i said no..now i m asking n u r not saying anything...i said...u remember the scene from DDLJ...where Kajol asks Shahrukh for his address to invite him for her wedding...n he says "main nahi aaonga"...so i told her...i ll not meet u...(maybe i did the wrong thing..but somehow thats wat came to my mind..too filmy eh???)
2 days back when she called...she was like.."i m sure u must b shocked and surprised"..and i am like...no..i m not..the reality is out there....but then i cant believe u telling me that it all happened so fast and u werent aware of it...then she says like.."trust me...even i wasnt...me n my folks went to meet the guy on 31st oct...and as the talks between my family n his family had been on for a while...it was decided that the marriage be conducted in a few days...before my would be hubby leaves for US"...n i am like...4 days???in 4 days u said to an arranged marriage...
i wanted to say..u r stupid..idiot..4 days..damn it...but all i could say was "my best wishes are with both of u"....how could i say anything else....and then she was like.."the entire family is like...u guyz ve done things too fast...we are just praying things remain ok always"...n i am like yeah they are right...when u cud ve said no...u said yes...atleast u cud ve taken some more time...and then someone came..n she had to go....
now...i seriously dont know what to talk..so guyz..lemme knw ur take on it...
but i need to hear out how to tackle this situation...
so here it goes...
remember the post on the mangalore girl who got married...well she has called up twice in this week..latest being 10mins ago....n i seriously didnt ve a clue of wat to talk abt...i mean...all i could do was like talk abt "wasup"..."howz life"..."had diner"..."howz ur hubby"....10mins of talking and this is all i could talk...gawd...i dont knw...shes back home for sometime before the paper work gets done for her to go to US.....and then she asks me...will u come n meet me in US...i said no....she says..will u meet me in Delhi...i didnt reply..she said...all the time u asked n i said no..now i m asking n u r not saying anything...i said...u remember the scene from DDLJ...where Kajol asks Shahrukh for his address to invite him for her wedding...n he says "main nahi aaonga"...so i told her...i ll not meet u...(maybe i did the wrong thing..but somehow thats wat came to my mind..too filmy eh???)
2 days back when she called...she was like.."i m sure u must b shocked and surprised"..and i am like...no..i m not..the reality is out there....but then i cant believe u telling me that it all happened so fast and u werent aware of it...then she says like.."trust me...even i wasnt...me n my folks went to meet the guy on 31st oct...and as the talks between my family n his family had been on for a while...it was decided that the marriage be conducted in a few days...before my would be hubby leaves for US"...n i am like...4 days???in 4 days u said to an arranged marriage...
i wanted to say..u r stupid..idiot..4 days..damn it...but all i could say was "my best wishes are with both of u"....how could i say anything else....and then she was like.."the entire family is like...u guyz ve done things too fast...we are just praying things remain ok always"...n i am like yeah they are right...when u cud ve said no...u said yes...atleast u cud ve taken some more time...and then someone came..n she had to go....
now...i seriously dont know what to talk..so guyz..lemme knw ur take on it...
6 comments:
just one honest advice buddy...run!!!
yes quit talking to her else u'll either end up getting hurt or ruining her life and may be urs in the bargain...get away fast as u cn change ur no. or whatever just stop talking to her..
@umang...thnx for the suggestions..but then.if i do all that..i ll not b myself...im someone who doesnt run away from situations..i face them head on...till the time getting hurt is concerned..i think i can manage my way arnd that...stop talking to her..i dont knw..mite just b too soon...newaz lets see..keep the suggestions going :)
dude am surprised to know about emotional escapades through your blog !! Any way I read that you were feeling scared of taking this whole episode well.. Dude theres nothing to be afraid of.. I would say that ab to is sab ki adat ho gayi hei so thats why tereko koi tension nahin hai.. And my take on that gal is that shes FAKING the whole thing.. play cool and she'll call you again in sm time !! Cheers...
@nitin...well im just getting some worldly views..tujhe to sab pata hai..n yea i knw ki mujhe koi tension nahi hai...n regarding the fact..shes faking...nahi yaar..not this time...
where have you heard these words before pushpi - "get over it and move on" this person is not a part of your life anymore and you really shouldnt be wasting even this much of your time on her
@aparna...i m not the one whose proactive in this thing...i m the one whose reactive in this situation :)
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